Uf, so many things I want to write here, where do I start? I was always very introspective; I liked to observe people’s behaviour since I was a little girl. I noticed how people treated each other, how disconnected we were with one another. I was social, always smiling and being what people wanted me to be. I didn’t know my voice, who I was, what I wanted, I knew I didn’t like conflict, so to avoid it at all cost I said yes all the time.

Because I didn’t have an internal compass, I was at the wrong place at the wrong time, and when I was 16, I was abused. I couldn’t understand what was going on or why, so my body, my brain, my soul, in the effort to survive that experience completely numbed my emotions. That added to my lack of compass took me to other places that kept me in this disconnection loop from myself like a downward spiral.

Until I met Dan, we were so in love that couldn’t wait to get our life started, so 6 months later we were getting married with a 5-month belly 😀

When my son was born at the age of 23, I started crying like never before, they were happy tears but in an uncontrollable way and lasted over 2 hours. It seemed that everything I held inside burst open without permission; it was magical. Since that moment, I started my journey back to myself. I read every book I could find, and learned from incredible people from around the world, talking with everyone I met. And block by block, step by step I paved the path back to my compass.

Things happened during my journey that brought me back to that place of depression and complete disconnection, like when my dad died suddenly just  5 hours after we spoke, but this time I had my toolbox full of useful things, so once more I came back.

The more I talked with people the more I felt the need I had since I was a little girl, to help people, and now I knew how.

I wanted to create a method, a process that was a fast, non-daunting approach, that was fresh, new and made everything easy. Something I could teach my kids so they could not only help themselves if they needed but also help others.

We are like puzzles with missing pieces looking for them outside, but we won’t find them there. We are each a part of the big puzzle, and in order to contribute and fulfil our place being that unique piece, we need to make sure our piece is not cut, painted and shaped into some other piece. We need to embrace our own uniqueness in order to be able to embrace and feel the wholeness of the entire world.

By becoming our best-wholehearted self, not only our relationship with ourselves and others improve, but we also help others do the same, like a lighthouse lighting their way Home. We finally honour our uniqueness, becoming that piece, that place just for us in the big puzzle. We help others heal, so we can all thrive together in this world where we belong, where we all belong together.